Monday, June 28, 2010

Cane and (Dis)able

The recent suicide of Rouvanjit Rawla, a class VIII student of La Martiniere School for Boys, Kolkata after being caned in school has once again brought the issue of corporal punishment in the spotlight, a practice which is still rampant in many schools. That a child should be driven to take this extreme step because of an archaic institution like caning is a matter of great concern. Reports of corporal punishment appear in the media with shocking frequency. This is surprising, considering the fact that the Supreme Court has outlawed corporal punishment years ago.
A recent survey by Outlook magazine throws up some interesting results. 73% parents say physical punishment has had no effect on children. Many believe that corporal punishment is just a case of a teacher not knowing what to do when the child doesn’t listen and so he falls back on beating the child. It does not in any way, make them more disciplined. The most common forms of punishment were being slapped or kicked, followed by beating with a stick, being pushed or shaken etc. Such punishments leave visible marks, as in injury, swelling or breeding. However, little gets known of the mental anguish that a child faces until it manifests into suicide or death.
However, there are always two sides to a coin. How should a teacher handle someone who breaks every rule? A teenager who just does not conform? This is a dilemma that confronts both teachers and parents. A misbehaving, naughty child may not comprehend the repercussions of his actions. So it is important to be in constant conversation with the child. The objective is to let him know the consequence of his actions. Creative methods of punishment like being barred from watching a favourite program on television or going out to play could be deployed if a mistake is repeated. But what should be emphasized is that at no stage can a child be beaten.
So what is the solution? How does one compensate for the loss of life, dignity of a child? The reason why schools have so much power is because there are such few of them and so many of us. Things will get better only when some balance is restored in the equation. New and better schools have to be opened to give the children the learning they are entitled to. New laws are certainly needed to make our teachers more accountable. We need to move away from the Victorian dictum “Spare the rod, spoil the child” and rephrase it as “Spare the rod, save the child”. Let’s give our children the education they deserve. Lets move towards a kinder garten.

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

An Eye Opening Visit

Recently a visit to CanKids (a unit of the Indian Cancer Society) at AIIMS was organized by the Interact Club of our school. Though we were somewhat mentally prepared to meet and interact with ailing, cancer-stricken children when we reached AIIMS and actually saw the gaunt and emaciated children we were rather taken aback. We were shocked to see them-- a few of them seemed to be in an advanced stage of the disease; they looked so sickly and pallid. However, we gathered our wits about us and went upto them with our goodie bags. On receiving the chips, chocolates, biscuits and toys their faces lit up with happiness and joy. I was appalled to see them relegated to a corner on the road; they had not even been provided with a basic room. Yet their spirits had not been dampened. On conversing with them we got to know that they were quite bright and intelligent. They rattled off poems, the alphabet, dialogues from films with incredible ease. A five year old girl, Nidhi Kumari, was particularly confident; she struck up a conversation with almost all of us and high-fived as were leaving. We were taken to the OPD as well. It was not a pretty sight. A hall overfull with patients waiting for their turn at the doctor did not paint a pretty picture. Some of them had been waiting for their turn for days. Nevertheless they were hopeful and optimistic. It was heartening to know that the support staff of CanKids were trying their level best to provide the children a holistic and cheerful environment to grow up in despite the limited resources. This visit was truly an eye opener. Cocooned in our world of comfort and luxury, we do not realize how fortunate and privileged we are that we do not have to face the grim realities of life. This visit was truly a wonderful one and I look forward to being a part of more such visits in the future.

Monday, June 21, 2010

Lets Go Green!!

I recently won a slogan writing competition on the environment. My winning entry was

''Plant a green thought, yield a bumper lot''


Lets all take a pledge to save our planet earth. Action needs to be taken now to end this catastrophic crime against nature, for the sake of our future. So do your part TODAY!